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12 Months Ahead
arrange for the two families to meet, discuss the big picture
determine task lists with both families
determine total budget for wedding
determine style and/or theme preferences
determine approximate size of party
set the date
interview wedding planners
reserve the reception site
reserve the ceremony site
select and ask attendants
send an engagement announcement to the newspaper
start shopping for your gown
10 Months Ahead
call a sampling of vendors to get a general idea of how far in advance each needs to be booked
start looking for professionals (caterer, florist, musicians, photographer)
begin writing the guest list
meet with your clergy member to discuss pre-marital requirements
9 Months Ahead
order your wedding gown
book your reception musicians or DJ
8 Months Ahead
hire your caterer
hire your photographer
reserve your florist
book your ceremony musicians
hire your videographer
browse through invitation catalogs, order samples of your favorites
order bridesmaids' dresses (take only one bridesmaid shopping with you)
establish a gift registry
6 Months Ahead
mail save-the-date cards if necessary
call county clerk where you'll be marrying to determine requirements
secure rentals (tent, tables, glassware, dinnerware)
begin researching honeymoon destinations
hire a calligrapher
reserve wedding-day transportation
start looking for a baker
order invitations and enclosures (order extra envelopes)
reserve a block of hotel rooms for out-of-town guests
start planning details with each professional (menus, bouquets, etc)
4 Months Ahead
reserve honeymoon accommodations
reserve honeymoon travel (flights)
reserve other honeymoon necessities (eg. rental car)
apply for passports if necessary
reserve hotel room for wedding night
reserve groomsmen's attire at a shop local to wedding location
finalize the guest list
give envelopes and a legible copy of guest list to calligrapher
start addressing invitations
order your wedding rings
book your salon professionals for the morning of your wedding
3 Months Ahead
first dress fitting
select a baker and order your cake
determine rehearsal and rehearsal dinner arrangements
print maps and driving directions to include with invitations
bridal shower
2 Months Ahead
meet with officiant to discuss vows, readings and music
take a complete invitation to the post office to determine accurate postage
buy postage for invitations and response-card envelopes
stamp and mail first set of invitations
have your formal portrait taken
second dress fitting
purchase gifts for attendants
get proper forms if you plan to change your name
submit song requests to bandleader
6 Weeks Ahead
mail B-List invitations
third (hopefully final) dress fitting
have ceremony programs printed
send a wedding announcement to the newspaper
pick up your wedding rings
3 Weeks Ahead
do a hair and makeup practice with your headpiece and veil
begin to arrange reception seating plan
2 Weeks Ahead
submit lists to photographer and videographer
confirm honeymoon reservations (wedding night, travel, hotel, vehicle)
apply for marriage license at county clerk's office
break in your shoes and scuff the soles
write toasts for rehearsal dinner and reception
pre-honeymoon beauty treatments (waxing, tanning)
call any guests who did not reply (if you think they might attend)
give your caterer the final guest count
The Weekend Before
bachelor party
bachelorette party
Final Week
bridesmaids' luncheon
guys' day out
give copies of verses to people doing ceremony readings
give schedule (including rehearsal, photo times) to all in wedding party
confirm details with bandleader or DJ (announcements, first song(s), set-up time)
confirm details with photographer (time and address of first location)
confirm details with florist (delivery time and location(s), contact person)
confirm details with bakery (delivery and set-up time)
confirm details with limousine service (time and place of first pick-up)
pick up your gown
pack for honeymoon
give the cake knife and server to the maid of honor to bring to the reception
The Day Before
place all final fees in individual envelopes, indicate recipient on outside
treat yourself (and Mom!) to a manicure or massage
attend rehearsal and rehearsal dinner
get a good night's sleep
Day of Wedding
eat a good breakfast (you need your energy)
mail announcements
give the rings to the best man
give vendor fee envelopes to your father or groom
Enjoy!